I’ve tried to have my wife shoot many different firearms. She has small hands, and a very weak grip. Of the many pistols I’ve had her try, the one she prefers above all others is my oldest pistol... Beretta 92FS. She can’t shoot it for very long, but the big grip gives her plenty of purchase, and it has very little recoil. I don’t have to make puff rounds for her for the Beretta. Since I don’t trade in any of my guns we now own 2 Kimber Micro 380s, a Kimber Micro 9, a Rock Island Baby Rock 1911-380, a Bersa Thunder 380, a Springfield 911, a Ruger SP101...lots of small, fairly easy to shoot firearms...and she prefers the Beretta 92FS. Go figure!