First Thing Thank You for your Service to our Country Brother. I think the
Hell Cat 9mm will serve you well. I recommend it! Look at it at a gun shop and try the slide rack and the trigger pull if you don't have a problem then it's for you. In some gun stores, they have indoor ranges and rent firearms to shoot call around to see if they have one to try out. Also,
Ruger makes a small Pistol called the
LC9 it's small and compact 9mm like its little brother the
LC.380 They claim its easy to rack and the trigger pull is easy. I still prefer the HellCat 9mm over all other micro-compact pistols so if you can cock it cycle the slide and pull the trigger then I say go for it.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ruger_LC9