I have not.I do mean REALLY small.
Speaking of the XDe, I am having a hard time finding someone who has one in stock, so that I can see how it feels in my hand. I definitely have my eye on this gun.
Have you ever held a Ruger EC9S or LC9S? How does it compare size-wise with the XDe?
I wear a large glove and it seems to fit well. I use the extended mag in the winter and the pinky extension in the summer.