^^^^^ THIS ^^^^^I have TINY guns, I like TINY guns, I sometimes carry a TINY gun; but I dont know anyone who shoots them nearly as well as a "regular gun". So that begs the question WILL the tiny guns you carry (because its better than not having a gun), really serve you when you need a gun.
Can you make head shots at 15 yards with it? Can you make body shots at 50 yards? Or do you only plan on needing it a bad breath distance?
My experience reflects yours, Pieter. Once one dips below the so-called "compact" size in pistols (or goes to an abbreviated butt flyweight revolver), an "average" size person with "average" size hands must alter their grip. Accuracy suffers as a result. Control over the gun in rapid fire suffers. Accidental "bumping" of the gun's controls occurs.
For example, I can shoot a 38 Special "target practice" load slow fire, double action only, in my airweight snubby and keep MOST of my shots in the area about the size of my hand at 7 to 10 yards. This is my current ability with my old eyes and iron sights. I can take the identical ammo and drop it into a L frame or N frame, shooting slow fire, double action only, and keep MOST of my shots under 2". Size and weight matter.
On the auto pistol side of the house, I observe a similar pattern. Using identical range ammo in my smallest auto vs my full-size auto, accuracy is fairly similar as long as I slow fire. When I speed up, the full-size pistol is far more controllable and shot placement far more accurate. AND... depending on the model, I find that it is irritatingly probable that I will inadvertently bump the slide lock control during rapid fire strings and lock the slide back before the magazine is empty. Once again, size and weight matter tremendously.
I'm not saying that small pistols and revolvers don't have a place. They do, especially when maximum concealment is the order of the day. However, to use a cliche, "A man (or a woman) has to know his (or her) limitations" and the limits that a given firearm imposes and what tradeoffs are being made via your choice of armament.