My last words on retirement. If you choose to be miserable from/or during your retirement, then you will be. It had always been my goal to retire by 62. And I planned and worked for it that way. As things happened, I decided the best bet for me was to retire while I could at 59. Holding out until 62 would have cost me more in the long run. And it turned into a good bet. I'm better set taking retirement now than at 62. And Social Security has no impact in my plans. I planned for that not being around for me when I was of age. I saw my father struggle to scrimp and save for his retirement (which he never received) and die the day after his 63rd birthday. He was a farmer and never was able to enjoy any of retirement. I can and am very much enjoying it.
sorry about your dad...i have known many that never made it to retirement...at my age, that's normal to witness.
but you need to understand too.....i am WAY OLDER than you
when you worked all your life as a child (illegally) but at least a born American, you get into that work ethic, as you followed your family way of working.
make sense..??
so for me to sit and do nothing, and yes, i too had horrible bosses, and thier flunkies, i carried on, knowing i was better than them in every way.
most times, those bosses and flunkies got fired.
other times, they got promotions
did i care...??
nope...cuz i can shave and look in the mirror proud that i survived them and am still better then they will ever be.
retirement sucks, when you have worked all your life, then what, just sit around, watch tv, go fishing, hunting..whatever..??
i still have my home life. my hobbies, and my family
i lose out on nothing..........
unless i have ice cream but no devil dog at the same time........oh and 1 more VERY important thing...
as a retiree, and i find side jobs or gigs..
if a boss ticks me off...??
i can tell him (or her) to go have sex with themselves, and walk out......
what are they gonna do to me...fire me, and i go on unemployment..??
sheesh..i still get my monthly checks,,, they still GOTTA WORK......lol...lol...lol