USMC6095: welcome to the forum !
You’ll find a lot of knowledge here - my advice is Take what works for YOU and run with that
Reading your questions made me think, and I’ve got a few disparate thoughts to share, in no particular order:
1. When it comes to handguns - especially EDC/bedside - how the gun “fits” you (your hand, bringing it up to sight, etc) is second only to reliability in importance.
2. As others mentioned, if you’re uncertain about whether Echelon is a “fit” for you, go fire one before you drop ~$600. Never mind how good the deal is; deals come & go all the time especially for plastics.
3. EDC… ugh, a totally personal thing. My take:
- EDC means Self Defense.
- Self defense usually means close range (often, VERY close).
- Close range SD means speed could be critical.
- Speed generally isn’t enhanced with add-ons. It’s better enhanced with simplification.
Bottom line: carry the most reliable gun you handle well and don’t factor in gadgets like optics until you’ve figured out the right gun. If you don’t handle it well without the gadgets, don’t expect to with them.
4. Do you intend to carry more than a couple mags (one being in the gun, of course) ?? Just askin’

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5. Personally, that Operator (I assume .45 ?) would be my bedside. That’s just me though.
6. When it comes to plastics, I lean to the less expensive and I’m intrigued by the XD Mod 3, which felt better - to me - than the Echelon despite not having multiple grip modules or whatever.
I’ve said it before: guns and cars have a lot in common. All kinds of pros and cons to consider. They’re both an investment, and usually a depreciating asset unless you get rid of them quickly…
Good luck with your choices; maybe you’ll let us know what you go with, and why !